Talking about what you want in bed is hard. In fact, it's one of THE most common complaints people have about communication. There are many reasons for that:

• The things that feel “sexy” might feel ephemeral or mysterious.
• The experience of desire, yearning, or fantasy happens in the body or the mind's eye, without words attached.
• You may only have explored in the context of what your partner offered you, like it or not.
• No one ever gave you the space, freedom or permission to discover your own desires on your own terms
• You may have an inkling of what makes you hot, hard, or wet, but putting words to it might feel impossible.
• No one ever taught you that there are names for the things you want (or for a lot of things in sex, for that matter!)

Here's the truth: Before you can talk about what you want in bed, you have to know what you want.

That's where Write Your Erotic Handbook comes in.

An Erotic Handbook is not a dating profile or personal ad.

Instead, it’s a personalized discovery process that is all about YOU.

From how you like to be touched, to what kinds of things make you feel loved, to your personal pleasure profile and the treasure map to your core erotic themes, we’ll dig into what makes you tick, what makes you hot, and what gets you going.

In this 4-week course, you’ll travel through your wildest fantasies, wander among the five senses, and explore what makes you feel cherished and beloved. You’ll get quizzes, writing prompts, and checklists. You’ll tap into what feels good to all of you. Interspersed throughout will be simple games to wake up your body and free your imagination.

You'll learn language, frameworks, and practices that help make your deep desires available and accessible.

Then you’ll write it all down so you can make it happen.

Regardless of how much or how little experience you have, your body has wisdom, and it can be hard to put into words.

That’s why we are doing this together.

Throughout the course, you’ll learn tips on how to notice, trust, and value your interests, appetites, and longings. You'll learn that what you're into is more common than you think and find language that works for you.

We’ll talk about how to use your Erotic Handbook and make sure the wording is focused on YOUR desires (rather than masking, hiding, smuggling them, or trying to make them fit into someone else's framework). We will also cover some additional topics you may want to include if you are kinky, queer or non-monogamous.

There will even be a sexy playlist or two!

Whether you create your handbook just for yourself or ultimately share it with another(s), this workshop is an exploration of sexual self-discovery unlike any other!

Class Details

• Thursdays, April 3-24th
• 5pm-7pm PDT | 8-10pm EDT
• 4 online meetings – recorded
• Teachable + Zoom