Asking For It

October 15th - November 5th

So you’ve been learning about your boundaries and discovering your limits…

Or you’ve started noticing (and maybe even trusting!) your preferences and desires in everyday life…

Or you’re starting to think about what you really want in bed…

But how the heck do you TALK about it?!

Communicating your boundaries, limits, needs and desires isn’t always easy, but it doesn’t have to be so hard.

That's where ASKING FOR IT comes in...

In this four-week virtual course, you’ll learn practical skills to:

  • Communicate boundaries and limits so they are clear and easily respected
  • Ask for what you want in your relationships so that you’re more likely to get it
  • Untangle confusing desires so you can make clear asks
  • Sort what you actually want from what you are willing to do or would be okay for you
  • Share your desires around vulnerable topics like sex and relationships
  • Negotiate clearly and in good faith

You’ll also learn what to ask for (and what you should never ask for), why we don’t ask (and what we do instead), and the three things you can always request when you don’t know what you want.

You’ll get useful distinctions, practical skills and an opportunity to practice with other people doing the same.

Join us! We start November 30th!

🎉 BONUS: 🎉

When you register for this course, you’ll get my brand new “USE YOUR WORDS: Scripts for Saying What You Want and Mean” e-book full of lines, sentence starters and scripts to help you find the exact language to communicate your boundaries, limits, desires and needs that works for you.

This ebook will be released in November and will sell for $17, but you get it as a bonus with this course!

Your Instructor

Marcia Baczynski
Marcia Baczynski

Marcia Baczynski, aka Marcia B, (she/her) is an internationally-recognized coach, writer and presenter on sexual communication, boundaries, consent and desire. Her primary mission is to help adults who want more connection and intimacy to overcome shame and get in touch with what they truly want – romantically, sexually and relationally – even if it’s off the beaten path.

She is the co-author of Creating Consent Culture: A Handbook for Educators which can be purchased at most major booksellers.

Marcia brings wisdom, humor, and creativity to all aspects of her work, and offers a fresh perspective on love, sex and relationships. With expertise in boundaries, communication, open relationships, LGBTQ+ experiences and sex positivity, she helps her clients chart an authentic path for themselves. Since 2003, she has helped tens of thousands of people through her private coaching, workshops and group programs.

Course Curriculum

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this course for?
This course is open to adults of any gender and sexual orientation who want to better communicate their boundaries, needs, desires and preferences. It is an educational program, and not a substitute for therapy.
When does the course start and finish?
Dates: October 15, 22, 29 and November 5 Timezones: 8:30 pm ET, 7:30 CT, 6:30 pm MT Course meetings take place on Zoom on Tuesdays at 5:30 PT, and will last for 2 hours.
How long do I have course access?
Your access lasts for 120 days after the course ends - across any and all devices you own!
Where do classes meet?
We meet on Zoom! You will get the link a few days before the first class. Each class will be recorded and uploaded to Teachable.
I'm a private person. Do I have to share my personal information in class?
The work we are doing together is really about self-reflection. While there will be plenty of opportunities to share insights and talk about discoveries during our meetings, it's all on your own terms. You do not have to share anything at all for all four weeks if you don't want to! You can ask questions anonymously, and live participation is entirely optional. (You can even attend anonymously if that is a concern for you.)
What is the refund policy?
There are no refunds on this course. All Zoom calls are recorded and will be posted within 48 hours for you to watch on your own in case you have to miss a meeting. Please be sure you wish to purchase before doing so!

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